How to get on with housemates
For many, coming to uni also means moving into new accommodation and living with new people. It can be hard adjusting when you have to learn to take into consideration people you may have not met before, so we’ve compiled our top tips on how to get on your new housemates, without resorting to a Sheldon and Leonard Roommate Agreement!
Keep an eye on your mess
In the kitchen, in the bathroom, in the living room, wherever you may share communal space, it’s advisable to keep your things neat and tidy to avoid brushing anyone up the wrong way.
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Keep noise to a minimum
Try to be quiet when you come in late or have friends over and don’t play music or instruments too loudly; not everyone else may feel like being social, or may be studying, so just bear this in mind.
Cook together
Remember that everyone is in the same boat – a good way to break the ice and cope with the idea that you are now adulting full-time is food shopping and cooking together. You can chat and get to know each other and you may learn some great recipes at the same time! Plus, maintaining a healthy diet while studying will help you stay physically and mentally well.
Find a solution to managing chores
Whether you implement a cleaning rota or task individuals with specific jobs, tackle managing the chores as soon as possible – this will hopefully mean less bickering later. Remember to do yours consistently. If you want to be super nice, offer to help a housemate who is struggling with their chores that week!
Invite your housemates to the library
Studying together or helping each other revise is another great way to get to know each other and be productive at the same time. Even if your housemates say no thanks, they will appreciate the offer.
Make time for social time
Head out together and have a good time and be sure to try activities that everyone enjoys – not everyone is guaranteed to like the same things as you. Be open to suggestions and try to reach a compromise.
Personal space is good…
Let’s face it, everyone needs their own space and some private time every now and again. Remember to make time for a little me-time and try not to be offended if you get turned down when asking your housemates if they want to do something together. You never know what kind of day people have had and knowing when to get involved and when to walk away is key.